About camgirls asking intrusive questions to users

BySebastian Delorme Posted on Updated on

Sometimes, camgirls that I have met for the time online asked me the following intrusive questions in a private chat session:

  • What is your source of income?
  • Do you have a job?
  • How much do you earn?
  • Are you married?
  • Why aren’t you married?
  • Why are you single?
  • Do you live on your own?
  • How old are you?
  • How many women did you have sex with?
  • What was your longest relationship?
  • When have you had sex for the last time?
  • Are you bi?
  • Have you had sex with a man?

In the real world, No-one would ask most of those personal questions to a stranger that one just met.

I think this behavior of questioning adult chat users is unacceptable.

You pay for a private chat. In this case, the cam girl should be at your service. It should not be the other way around. This is not like a regular chat at a local Starbucks’ coffee shop.

Then, I think that some questions are unacceptable. If a camgirl asks you: “why aren’t you married?”, I think you should end the conversation here. A paid private chat session should not be a police interrogation. Some cam girls make the mistake to consider a paid private chat just like a regular chat. It just not acceptable. The cam girl is a service provider.

Police interrogation

When a private chat starts to feel like a police interrogation, it no longer makes sense. Paying for a private webcam chat should not mean being subjected to a series of personal questions. I’m not saying that cam girls should never ask questions, but they should respect their visitors’ privacy.

Inappropriate questions

These questions are even worse than intrusive questions.

For example, several cam girls asked me to tell the size of my penis. This question was misplaced in the middle of the conversation. No man asks a woman if she has a “big vagina”.

  • Do you have a big penis?
  • What is the size of your penis?

I like to repeat that cam girls are service providers. They should not ask intimate questions out of the blue. They should let the customer start a conversation and choose a topic.

Role reversal

Then, I also came across situations where women were even more intrusive by asking me to show my penis or get undressed. There is really a role reversal in this case. A visitor should not be asked to do anything in private chat. He should do whatever he wants to do when he wants to do it.

I’d like to repeat that a paid private webcam chat is not like a normal free chat. The visitor should not be asked to do anything by the camgirl because that’s the visitor who pays for the chat session.

never forget that a camgirl is a service provider.

She knows everything about you and you know nothing about her

This asymmetric relationship happens when a webcam girl knows everything about you and you know nothing about her.

if you witness that a woman does not answer your question in the first place and asks you questions instead, it is time to leave the private chat session. Even if a cam girl seems to be funny, It’s a waste of time to interact with an instrusive person. Don’t financially support toxic cam girls.

What to do if it happens?

Leave the chat session as fast as possible. If the website allows it, leave a comment to warn other users. Give a 1-star rating. etc…etc…

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