There are several websites that provide live striptease shows on webcam in a private chat session. In those chat session, you can actually give directions to the camgirl for the striptease on webcam.
From what we have seen, we found camgirls with enough room space to perform a proper striptease show just like in a strip club at livejasmin.com & Imlive.com.
Pole dancing shows:
Unfortunately, we never found any features to find camgirls who had a pole dance. Nevertheless, we have found camgirls with pole dance at LiveJasmin, Imlive & Sreamate.com. The screenshot below comes from Livejasmin.

We didn’t talk about LiveJasmin, imlive, streamate randomly. In fact, that’s the camgirl websites where you can get a private striptease in a chat session. Most of the time, camgirls from myfreecams or chaturbate don’t accept private & private are more expensive than at