How to choose a good cam model for a private chat who is not deceptive?

Here is some advice for choosing a good cam model for a private chat session, avoiding fraudsters and deceptive cam models.

Prefer a webcam model who audio chats

If a camgirl speaks out loud to you in a voice chat, this means that you are her only interlocutor. On the other hand, if her audio is off, she may simultaneously text chat with several users.

An audio chat also means that you really chat with the cam model; not a human translator (my article about scams).This also means that she understands what you say.

It is cheaper to chat in a voice chat with a cam model than to chat with a cam model by via text. When you text chat, it takes a long time to type a sentence. Without being aware of it, it is way slower to express your ideas by typing than talking.

If privacy matters to you, you are not forced to talk in a voice chat to her. You can type and she can answer you by talking out loud. If she does not understand English well, she can still turn on her audio to show that she is honest. Good cam models switch on their microphones.

Prefer cam models who speak out loud

If a woman must translate every sentence you send her, the conversation will be annoyingly slow and also expensive. It will take time before the cam model takes action and do what you asked or answer your question. Such interaction can be very frustrating when you are charged by the minute. You must always wait for the action of the cam model.

Choose cam models who want to talk

If you see that she does not answer your question, leave as soon as possible.

Leave a chat room if you see that the cam model answers to you by typing one word or very short sentences like “yes”, “no”, “I like it”. If you post 20 sentences, and get a “yes” or “no” in response, it is really not worth paying for a private chat.

Also, if a camgirl refuses to answer, if you see that she is aggressive, just leave without saying goodbye. If she is upset because of a question, don’t waste your time. Sometimes cam models don’t answer even if they understood the question.

Here is an example: a customer asked a camgirl “do you like to watch porn?” and the camgirl answered “what is this question?”

A paid webcam chat session is not a chit-chat at a party. A cam model is a service provider. If she does not deliver, you should leave instantly because you pay for the chat. If there is a user review area, describe the problem with the said cam model.

Prefer webcam models who respect privacy

Some webcam models stream on several websites at the same time. It is not a problem as long as they follow a simple rule. When a cam model gets in a private chat session she must stop streaming on other adult chat websites.

If she does not do it, it means several things.

  • Some people on different websites can see her live show for free while somebody is charged by the minute to watch it.
  • If they talk in a voice chat, other people on different websites can hear the conversation even if the user who pays talks in an exclusive chat session.

Take a look at her score or user reviews

A webcam model may look stunning but it does not mean she is good during private chat sessions. Many adult chat sites have a score system or a user review system. For example, when you visit the profile of a livejasmin cam model and click on her info, you can see stars at the top of the window. It is not a good sign, If you don’t see more than 3 stars only. It means that other members rated this cam model and were not satisfied.

A good webcam model has always five stars on livejasmin, camcontacts, streamate, stripchat.

She must do what you asked

When you asked a woman to get naked and when you see that she is obviously dragging out by chit-chatting, it is time to leave the chat session. Some camgirls are slow on purpose because they want the guests to stay as long as possible. On the other hand, good cam models do what you asked right away.

When a cam model answers your questions after a significant time, this may not be acceptable. I wait up to 30 seconds before leaving. I know that sometimes camgirls use google translate. I prefer when they mention that they use it. Otherwise, there is no reason to wait for an answer.

No public chat room? She must have good pictures

The profile of a good camgirl should include many pictures, especially if the visited adult chat website does not offer a free public chat room to preview the webcam model before entering a private chat room. By the way, it is unacceptable for a camgirl to use pictures from another model, as this suggests she is trying to deceive you. She might also choose to hide her face in her profile pictures.

Nowadays, with even a basic smartphone, it is effortless to take good-quality pictures. However, some webcam models intentionally take bad pictures.

This behavior doesn’t make sense, as they have the option to block visitors from their country of residence. For example, a Russian woman can block Russian visitors. There is no need to hide their face since no one from their country will be able to see the camgirl’s profile

Stay away from cam models with bad profile photo. What is a bad profile photo?

  • A low quality photo
  • A zoom on a body part like an elbow
  • Dark photos

If she wants to remain anonymous, she can take photo of her without her face and still take picture s of the rest of her body.

Avoid role reversal

Sometimes, camgirls repeatedly question you about your life every 10 seconds during a private chat. This is what I call role reversal—it feels like paying a woman to interrogate you. To me, this is an outrageous situation, and I encourage everyone to leave the private chat immediately if it happens. You don’t go online and pay for a chat session just to be questioned. It’s nonsensical.

Of course, it’s different if you willingly choose to talk about yourself. My rule is simple: a camgirl should only ask a personal question if the user brings up the topic first. For instance, if a man starts talking about his divorce, then it’s fine for the camgirl to ask questions related to it. However, she should not, upon entering the chat, start asking a series of intrusive personal questions like these:

  • “When was your last sex?”
  • “What was your longest relationship?”
  • “Do you have a job?”
  • “What is your job?”
  • “Do you work?”
  • “Why aren’t you at work now?”
  • “Are you divorced?”
  • “Are you single?”
  • “Are you married?”
  • “Did you cheat on your wife?”
  • “Do you have children?”
  • “How big is your penis?”
  • “What color is your penis?”

I think it is also not polite. No stranger in real life would ask you such personal questions without knowing you.

Good cam models start by saying something like:

  • “May I ask you, what are you looking for here?”
  • “Why did you choose me?”
  • “What do you like to do when you come here?”

Those questions aren’t intrusive. In fact, a camgirl can ask respectful questions that aren’t personal.

For sure, it is a different story, if you want to talk about your personal problems with a camgirls.

The camgirl asks you to perform actions – Role reversal

In this role reversal, some camgirls may ask you to get naked or show your penis. If you were specifically seeking a dominatrix, it would make sense to enjoy taking orders from your master. However, in that case, you would have made it clear that you are looking for a dominatrix. On the other hand, when you are simply chatting with a camgirl, I believe she should not ask you to get naked or show your penis. To me, this is a clear role reversal—you are there to attend a live sex show, not to become the performer.

Of course, you may find it arousing to show your erect penis, but in such a scenario, it should be entirely your initiative. Some camgirls understand how to approach this more respectfully. For instance, they might say, ‘Do you want to show me your penis?’—a much more polite and considerate way to ask.

A good cam model learns to speak english well

Some camgirls do not learn English even after working as a camgirl for several months. If their price-per-minute is high, this is outrageous. A camgirl who does not speak English cannot understand you instantly, making the conversation much slower than it would be if she had a good command of the language. Additionally, she often has to rely on translation websites, which further slows down communication. When comparing the amount of information exchanged in a text chat versus an audio chat, far more information is exchanged while speaking aloud. Text communication can take up to ten times longer than talking.

Consequently, if a camgirl does not understand English well, her price-per-minute should be significantly lower. Fortunately, there are many camgirls who offer great value for their price.

If a camgirl cannot speak English, she should prioritize learning it quickly. It is understandable if she is only 19 years old, as she may not have had the opportunity to learn English online yet. However, if a camgirl is over 30, it is a different story. At that age, she has had plenty of time to learn English, and if she has worked as a camgirl for several years without making the effort, it suggests she is not serious about her job. In any profession, people are expected to acquire the basic skills necessary to perform their duties effectively. So, why should it be any different for a camgirl?